3sh's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to 3sh's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof panicky passive	Blind Spot intolerant inflexible timid violent glum simple withdrawn hostile cynical irrational distant chaotic impatient insensitive callous cold
Not Known to Others	Façade cruel	Unknown incompetent cowardly stupid insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash ignorant childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that 3sh is intolerant

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (16%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (16%) aloof (50%) glum (16%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (50%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (16%) distant (16%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (16%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (16%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

Liza Cham thinks: intolerant, simple, irrational, chaotic, glum.
adi thinks: hostile, aloof, cold, impatient, distant, withdrawn.
lewi thinks: violent, insensitive, simple, timid, aloof.
Gaiman thinks: panicky, cynical, passive, intolerant, hostile.
chy thinks: impatient, callous, cynical, intolerant, inflexible.
evil one thinks: panicky, intolerant, hostile, timid, aloof.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, panicky, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, inflexible, timid, violent, glum, simple, withdrawn, hostile, cynical, irrational, distant, chaotic, impatient, insensitive, callous, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cruel</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, cowardly, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that 3sh is intolerant <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (16%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (16%) aloof (50%) glum (16%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (50%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (16%) distant (16%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (16%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (16%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 15.1.2025, using data from 6 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=3sh">view 3sh's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.