Arety's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof glum insecure lethargic inane	Blind Spot timid withdrawn cynical needy distant loud passive overdramatic dull inattentive
Not Known to Others	Façade stupid	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent simple irresponsible vulgar hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate predictable callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that Arety is needy
60% of people think that Arety is distant

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (20%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (40%) glum (20%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (20%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (60%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (60%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (40%) dull (40%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (40%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

Anon thinks: aloof, glum, passive, needy, loud.
Townsley thinks: insecure, needy, overdramatic, distant, timid.
Vorb thinks: insecure, needy, withdrawn, cynical, overdramatic.
ThePhantomSquee thinks: inane, lethargic, distant, inattentive, dull.
Asph thinks: aloof, distant, passive, inattentive, dull.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, glum, insecure, lethargic, inane</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, withdrawn, cynical, needy, distant, loud, passive, overdramatic, dull, inattentive</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> stupid</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, predictable, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people think that Arety is needy 60% of people think that Arety is distant <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (20%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (40%) glum (20%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (20%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (60%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (60%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (40%) dull (40%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (40%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 20.6.2026, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Arety">view Arety's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.