Becca the Emo's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure unhappy impatient	Blind Spot intolerant inflexible timid withdrawn needy embarrassed panicky passive overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade cynical unimaginative irrational	Unknown incompetent cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful inane brash cruel ignorant distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that Becca the Emo is unhappy
75% of people agree that Becca the Emo is impatient
75% of people think that Becca the Emo is panicky

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (75%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (75%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (75%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

JS thinks: unhappy, withdrawn, insecure, needy, passive, timid.
mom thinks: timid, unhappy, embarrassed, panicky, impatient.
V thinks: insecure, embarrassed, unhappy, impatient, panicky.
ALyssa thinks: inflexible, intolerant, overdramatic, panicky, impatient, needy.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, unhappy, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, inflexible, timid, withdrawn, needy, embarrassed, panicky, passive, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cynical, unimaginative, irrational</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that Becca the Emo is unhappy 75% of people agree that Becca the Emo is impatient 75% of people think that Becca the Emo is panicky <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (75%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (75%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (75%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 5.2.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Becca the Emo">view Becca the Emo's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.