Bethany Mills's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Bethany Mills's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
unhappy
unhelpful

Blind Spot

incompetent
timid
cowardly
aloof
glum
simple
irresponsible
withdrawn
selfish
cynical
needy
cruel
ignorant
distant
childish
weak
panicky
passive
overdramatic
predictable
cold
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

irrational
embarrassed

Unknown

intolerant inflexible violent stupid vulgar lethargic hostile unimaginative inane brash boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

57% of people think that Bethany Mills is withdrawn

All Percentages

incompetent (14%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (14%) cowardly (14%) violent (0%) aloof (14%) glum (14%) stupid (0%) simple (14%) insecure (42%) irresponsible (14%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (57%) hostile (0%) selfish (28%) unhappy (28%) unhelpful (14%) cynical (14%) needy (28%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (14%) ignorant (28%) irrational (0%) distant (14%) childish (42%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (14%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (28%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (14%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (28%) dull (0%) predictable (14%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (14%) foolish (28%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (7 people)

anonymous thinks: aloof, passive, cynical, withdrawn, simple.
anonymous thinks: timid, insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, needy, childish.
anonymous thinks: childish, foolish, overdramatic, needy, predictable, ignorant.
anonymous thinks: glum, weak, panicky, ignorant, irresponsible, selfish.
Jama thinks: withdrawn, unhappy, panicky, insecure, cold.
none thinks: foolish, overdramatic, incompetent, selfish, cruel, childish.
. thinks: insecure, distant, withdrawn, unhelpful, cowardly.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.