The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Bethany Mills's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainsecureunhappy unhelpful | Blind Spotincompetenttimid cowardly aloof glum simple irresponsible withdrawn selfish cynical needy cruel ignorant distant childish weak panicky passive overdramatic predictable cold foolish |
Not Known to Others | Façadeirrationalembarrassed | Unknownintolerant inflexible violent stupid vulgar lethargic hostile unimaginative inane brash boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
57% of people think that Bethany Mills is withdrawn
incompetent (14%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (14%) cowardly (14%) violent (0%) aloof (14%) glum (14%) stupid (0%) simple (14%) insecure (42%) irresponsible (14%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (57%) hostile (0%) selfish (28%) unhappy (28%) unhelpful (14%) cynical (14%) needy (28%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (14%) ignorant (28%) irrational (0%) distant (14%) childish (42%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (14%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (28%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (14%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (28%) dull (0%) predictable (14%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (14%) foolish (28%) humourless (0%)
anonymous thinks: aloof, passive, cynical, withdrawn, simple.
anonymous thinks: timid, insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, needy, childish.
anonymous thinks: childish, foolish, overdramatic, needy, predictable, ignorant.
anonymous thinks: glum, weak, panicky, ignorant, irresponsible, selfish.
Jama thinks: withdrawn, unhappy, panicky, insecure, cold.
none thinks: foolish, overdramatic, incompetent, selfish, cruel, childish.
. thinks: insecure, distant, withdrawn, unhelpful, cowardly.
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