Chrysilisdelta's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure irresponsible cynical passive	Blind Spot aloof withdrawn needy distant blasé dispassionate predictable unreliable
Not Known to Others	Façade timid lethargic	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent glum stupid simple vulgar hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash overdramatic dull callous inattentive cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that Chrysilisdelta is insecure
100% of people think that Chrysilisdelta is withdrawn

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (100%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (33%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

boogaboo thinks: needy, aloof, passive, cynical, withdrawn.
melissa thinks: insecure, unreliable, irresponsible, withdrawn, dispassionate.
SadieBeth thinks: insecure, withdrawn, predictable, distant, blasé.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, irresponsible, cynical, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, withdrawn, needy, distant, blasé, dispassionate, predictable, unreliable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> timid, lethargic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, overdramatic, dull, callous, inattentive, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people agree that Chrysilisdelta is insecure 100% of people think that Chrysilisdelta is withdrawn <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (100%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (33%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (33%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Chrysilisdelta">view Chrysilisdelta's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.