The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Countessa's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaselfishcynical loud overdramatic | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible insecure needy childish boastful impatient self-satisfied predictable |
Not Known to Others | Façadecruelsmug | Unknownincompetent timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant irrational distant blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive passive rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
66% of people think that Countessa is intolerant
66% of people think that Countessa is inflexible
incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (66%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (33%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Fiancee' thinks: self-satisfied, insecure, intolerant, selfish, predictable.
Jess thinks: impatient, cynical, boastful, inflexible, loud.
Anon thinks: intolerant, inflexible, needy, overdramatic, childish.
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