The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to FaridehHatesYou's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenairresponsibleselfish childish rash overdramatic | Blind Spotinflexiblealoof insecure unhelpful ignorant irrational insensitive foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeweak | Unknownincompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
66% of people agree that FaridehHatesYou is irresponsible
66% of people agree that FaridehHatesYou is childish
66% of people agree that FaridehHatesYou is rash
100% of people agree that FaridehHatesYou is overdramatic
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (66%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (33%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (33%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (66%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (66%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (100%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)
K'del thinks: inflexible, ignorant, overdramatic, rash, childish, insensitive.
rafe thinks: irresponsible, selfish, rash, overdramatic, foolish, childish.
Edyis thinks: insecure, irresponsible, aloof, irrational, overdramatic, unhelpful.
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