The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Kawaiikitty's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaincompetentcowardly stupid simple needy humourless | Blind Spotinsecureirresponsible lethargic unhappy unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful chaotic impatient weak vacuous self-satisfied passive overdramatic dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownintolerant inflexible timid violent aloof glum vulgar withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful cynical brash distant blasé imperceptive embarrassed loud panicky unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate callous |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
60% of people think that Kawaiikitty is insecure
incompetent (20%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (30%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (50%) simple (30%) insecure (60%) irresponsible (10%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (10%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (10%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (30%) unimaginative (10%) inane (10%) brash (0%) cruel (10%) ignorant (10%) irrational (30%) distant (0%) childish (30%) boastful (10%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (10%) impatient (10%) weak (20%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (10%) passive (10%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (10%) dull (20%) predictable (10%) callous (0%) inattentive (10%) unreliable (10%) cold (20%) foolish (20%) humourless (50%)
Dani - yes I filled out my own thinks: irresponsible, lethargic, irrational, impatient, foolish, cold.
The Real Dani thinks: humourless, stupid, simple, insecure, needy, weak.
lollah4eva thinks: humourless, insecure, stupid, simple, needy, cowardly.
EMO KIDS GET OUT thinks: incompetent, simple, stupid, humourless, insecure, cowardly.
too bad you're suspended :O thinks: humourless, foolish, cold, unreliable, inattentive.
. thinks: incompetent, insecure, ignorant, weak, stupid, overdramatic.
joybeans thinks: unimaginative, needy, inane, dull, predictable, humourless.
CuntlyCole thinks: boastful, childish, irrational, insecure, stupid, vacuous.
. thinks: self-satisfied, insecure, childish, irrational, cowardly, cruel.
asd thinks: dull, passive, vacuous, chaotic, childish, unhappy.
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