The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to KuteLuvr's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainsecureselfish boastful impatient self-satisfied overdramatic | Blind Spotincompetentinflexible timid aloof stupid vulgar withdrawn cynical needy ignorant irrational distant childish imperceptive weak insensitive smug predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownintolerant cowardly violent glum simple irresponsible lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel blasé chaotic embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical passive rash dispassionate dull cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (14%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (14%) timid (14%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (28%) glum (0%) stupid (14%) simple (0%) insecure (14%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (28%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (14%) hostile (0%) selfish (42%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (42%) needy (28%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (14%) irrational (14%) distant (14%) childish (42%) boastful (14%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (14%) chaotic (0%) impatient (14%) weak (28%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (14%) self-satisfied (14%) passive (0%) smug (14%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (14%) dull (0%) predictable (14%) callous (14%) inattentive (14%) unreliable (14%) cold (0%) foolish (14%) humourless (0%)
StarfireRapture thinks: vulgar, cynical, self-satisfied, distant, needy.
soundofthemoon thinks: inflexible, foolish, insecure, imperceptive, predictable.
Chris thinks: overdramatic, selfish, cynical, childish, irrational, impatient.
george thinks: vulgar, stupid, withdrawn, cynical, childish, insensitive.
atwood thinks: incompetent, ignorant, needy, callous, weak, unreliable.
Adrian thinks: timid, aloof, selfish, weak, inattentive.
anon thinks: childish, boastful, smug, aloof, selfish.
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