Lacedheart's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Lacedheart's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena withdrawn ignorant	Blind Spot timid cowardly aloof hostile unhappy cynical needy irrational distant chaotic embarrassed loud panicky passive inattentive
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure selfish childish cold	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (25%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

NotNyte thinks: timid, aloof, loud, distant, withdrawn, passive.
mikey thinks: panicky, timid, embarrassed, needy, chaotic, passive.
Carnelian thinks: ignorant, panicky, inattentive, irrational, cowardly, distant.
Steve thinks: aloof, cynical, unhappy, hostile, chaotic, loud.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> withdrawn, ignorant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, cowardly, aloof, hostile, unhappy, cynical, needy, irrational, distant, chaotic, embarrassed, loud, panicky, passive, inattentive</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, selfish, childish, cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, violent, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (25%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Lacedheart">view Lacedheart's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.