MOKO's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to MOKO's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena withdrawn ignorant	Blind Spot incompetent intolerant cowardly aloof glum stupid simple insecure lethargic unhappy cynical needy boastful imperceptive weak vacuous self-satisfied dispassionate overdramatic predictable humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade hostile irrational insensitive unreliable	Unknown inflexible timid violent irresponsible vulgar selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel distant childish blasé chaotic impatient embarrassed loud panicky unethical passive smug rash dull callous inattentive cold foolish
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that MOKO is unhappy
60% of people think that MOKO is weak

All Percentages

incompetent (20%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (20%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (20%) stupid (20%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (20%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (60%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (20%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (60%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (20%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

ThaKid thinks: self-satisfied, boastful, cynical, lethargic, imperceptive, intolerant.
Ozzay! thinks: predictable, glum, unhappy, vacuous, weak.
. thinks: needy, ignorant, dispassionate, humourless, weak, withdrawn.
aaron gong marry me plz thinks: insecure, unhappy, predictable, simple, aloof.
a guy thinks: incompetent, cowardly, stupid, unhappy, weak, overdramatic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> withdrawn, ignorant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> incompetent, intolerant, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, lethargic, unhappy, cynical, needy, boastful, imperceptive, weak, vacuous, self-satisfied, dispassionate, overdramatic, predictable, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> hostile, irrational, insensitive, unreliable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> inflexible, timid, violent, irresponsible, vulgar, selfish, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, distant, childish, blasé, chaotic, impatient, embarrassed, loud, panicky, unethical, passive, smug, rash, dull, callous, inattentive, cold, foolish</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people think that MOKO is unhappy 60% of people think that MOKO is weak <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (20%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (20%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (20%) stupid (20%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (20%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (60%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (20%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (60%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (20%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 4.7.2025, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=MOKO">view MOKO's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.