Meme Duchess's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
vulgar
needy
loud
panicky

Blind Spot

intolerant
timid
simple
irresponsible
withdrawn
hostile
unhappy
unhelpful
cynical
inane
brash
irrational
distant
childish
boastful
blasé
chaotic
impatient
vacuous
insensitive
passive
overdramatic
dull
predictable
inattentive
cold
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

embarrassed

Unknown

incompetent inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid lethargic selfish unimaginative cruel ignorant imperceptive weak unethical self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate callous unreliable humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Meme Duchess is childish
53% of people agree that Meme Duchess is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (6%) inflexible (0%) timid (13%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (6%) insecure (46%) irresponsible (26%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (6%) hostile (6%) selfish (0%) unhappy (6%) unhelpful (6%) cynical (6%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (13%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (13%) distant (6%) childish (66%) boastful (6%) blasé (6%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (6%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (53%) vacuous (13%) panicky (13%) unethical (0%) insensitive (6%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (6%) predictable (26%) callous (0%) inattentive (13%) unreliable (0%) cold (6%) foolish (6%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (15 people)

the flu apologizes take meds thinks: predictable, insecure, passive, brash, needy.
Frosty6226 thinks: timid, withdrawn, insecure, panicky, vacuous, needy.
TheNewEnglandRevolution thinks: passive, cold, unhappy, insensitive, distant.
Tsu thinks: inane, cynical, chaotic, childish, loud.
anonymoose thinks: insecure, blasé, chaotic, childish, impatient.
Kas thinks: insecure, panicky, timid, loud, brash.
ESFJ thinks: childish, insecure, overdramatic, needy, irrational.
Moon thinks: loud, insecure, vulgar, predictable, childish.
Australian Senpai thinks: predictable, passive, childish, vulgar, loud, chaotic.
lenneh thinks: vulgar, irresponsible, insecure, needy, childish, overdramatic.
fuck off thinks: needy, childish, simple, vacuous, loud.
Secret Santa xxx thinks: foolish, loud, childish, irresponsible, vulgar, inane.
miker thinks: irrational, childish, irresponsible, loud, overdramatic, predictable.
Iris thinks: boastful, unhelpful, dull, intolerant, irresponsible, inattentive.
Ellie thinks: vulgar, hostile, childish, loud, inattentive, brash.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.