MoonLightShadow's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to MoonLightShadow's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena needy passive	Blind Spot inflexible timid aloof simple insecure withdrawn unhappy cynical impatient embarrassed panicky self-satisfied overdramatic dull predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade intolerant unhelpful distant unreliable	Unknown incompetent cowardly violent glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate callous inattentive cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that MoonLightShadow is timid

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (40%) timid (60%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (40%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (40%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (40%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (20%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

zee_alien thinks: timid, cynical, insecure, needy, withdrawn.
Rain thinks: impatient, timid, dull, unhappy, aloof.
sarah thinks: embarrassed, inflexible, panicky, unhappy, cynical.
Shex thinks: embarrassed, inflexible, predictable, simple, withdrawn, self-satisfied.
HALi thinks: overdramatic, passive, panicky, impatient, timid, predictable.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> needy, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, timid, aloof, simple, insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, cynical, impatient, embarrassed, panicky, self-satisfied, overdramatic, dull, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> intolerant, unhelpful, distant, unreliable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, callous, inattentive, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people think that MoonLightShadow is timid <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (40%) timid (60%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (40%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (40%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (40%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (20%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 3.5.2024, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=MoonLightShadow">view MoonLightShadow's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.