The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Nihlah's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaboastfulblasé | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant inflexible violent simple vulgar selfish unimaginative cruel ignorant childish impatient loud panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive overdramatic predictable cold |
Not Known to Others | Façadeunhappybrash chaotic | Unknowntimid cowardly aloof glum stupid insecure irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile unhelpful cynical needy inane irrational distant imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
66% of people think that Nihlah is simple
incompetent (16%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (16%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (66%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (16%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (16%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (16%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (16%) ignorant (16%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (16%) boastful (33%) blasé (16%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (16%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (16%) unethical (16%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
anonymous thinks: impatient, violent, vulgar, insensitive, boastful, unethical.
are these weaknesses?? thinks: childish, simple, loud, predictable, self-satisfied.
ok thinks: ignorant, intolerant, inflexible, loud, selfish.
michael thinks: incompetent, unimaginative, simple, loud, predictable.
seruling-haha thinks: violent, cruel, panicky, passive, simple.
nobody thinks: overdramatic, passive, boastful, blasé, cold, simple.
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