Nihlah's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Nihlah's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

boastful
blasé

Blind Spot

incompetent
intolerant
inflexible
violent
simple
vulgar
selfish
unimaginative
cruel
ignorant
childish
impatient
loud
panicky
unethical
insensitive
self-satisfied
passive
overdramatic
predictable
cold
Not Known to Others

Façade

unhappy
brash
chaotic

Unknown

timid cowardly aloof glum stupid insecure irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile unhelpful cynical needy inane irrational distant imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Nihlah is simple

All Percentages

incompetent (16%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (16%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (66%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (16%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (16%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (16%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (16%) ignorant (16%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (16%) boastful (33%) blasé (16%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (16%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (16%) unethical (16%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

anonymous thinks: impatient, violent, vulgar, insensitive, boastful, unethical.
are these weaknesses?? thinks: childish, simple, loud, predictable, self-satisfied.
ok thinks: ignorant, intolerant, inflexible, loud, selfish.
michael thinks: incompetent, unimaginative, simple, loud, predictable.
seruling-haha thinks: violent, cruel, panicky, passive, simple.
nobody thinks: overdramatic, passive, boastful, blasé, cold, simple.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.