The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Sean Li's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenaimpatientinsensitive self-satisfied smug | Blind Spotinflexiblealoof glum insecure withdrawn selfish unhelpful cynical brash distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive rash overdramatic dull callous cold |
| Not Known to Others | Façadecruel | Unknownincompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy needy unimaginative inane ignorant irrational chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical passive dispassionate predictable inattentive unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
66% of people think that Sean Li is cynical
58% of people agree that Sean Li is smug
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (8%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (8%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (8%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (0%) selfish (16%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (25%) cynical (66%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (8%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (8%) boastful (16%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (8%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (58%) rash (8%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (8%) predictable (0%) callous (8%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Alice L thinks: smug, unhelpful, aloof, cynical, blasé.
eileen thinks: boastful, smug, overdramatic, brash, rash.
edfu thinks: unhelpful, insensitive, childish, cold, selfish, self-satisfied.
Julie thinks: cynical, impatient, cynical, glum, self-satisfied, distant.
Rebecca thinks: cynical, boastful, cold, smug, distant.
only sometimes thinks: aloof, insecure, insensitive, distant, cold, cynical.
Melissa thinks: cynical, blasé, overdramatic, insensitive, self-satisfied, aloof.
susan y thinks: blasé, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, callous, impatient.
hypocritical thinks: aloof, withdrawn, unhelpful, smug, selfish, overdramatic.
Steph thinks: smug, cynical, imperceptive, impatient, distant.
yo momma thinks: distant, dull, aloof, inflexible, smug.
Defensive_Specialist thinks: aloof, cynical, withdrawn, blasé, impatient, distant.
You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-