The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Silken's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaaloofinsecure cynical predictable inattentive | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant inflexible timid withdrawn unhappy needy brash irrational distant boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient embarrassed panicky self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate overdramatic unreliable |
Not Known to Others | Façadeinsensitive | Unknowncowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant childish blasé weak loud vacuous unethical smug dull callous cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (12%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (12%) timid (12%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (37%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (37%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (37%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (12%) needy (12%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (12%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (12%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (25%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (12%) chaotic (12%) impatient (37%) weak (0%) embarrassed (12%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (12%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (12%) smug (0%) rash (12%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (12%) callous (0%) inattentive (12%) unreliable (12%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
bert thinks: aloof, unhappy, imperceptive, predictable, boastful.
Spring thinks: aloof, self-satisfied, boastful, intolerant, impatient.
freya thinks: withdrawn, insecure, chaotic, panicky, unreliable.
RaiibReedy thinks: insecure, distant, overdramatic, cynical, inflexible.
mysteryelfx thinks: aloof, unhappy, withdrawn, embarrassed, impatient.
daughter thinks: needy, intolerant, insecure, brash, timid.
rt thinks: incompetent, distant, withdrawn, inattentive, dispassionate, impatient.
Anpu thinks: irrational, rash, overdramatic, self-satisfied, dispassionate, passive.
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