Thirteenly's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cowardly needy panicky overdramatic	Blind Spot incompetent timid stupid insecure hostile unhappy unhelpful irrational childish impatient embarrassed dull
Not Known to Others	Façade passive	Unknown intolerant inflexible violent aloof glum simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn selfish cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that Thirteenly is insecure
75% of people agree that Thirteenly is needy

All Percentages

incompetent (25%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (25%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (0%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (25%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Amonaymus thinks: insecure, needy, overdramatic, unhappy, timid.
anonymous thinks: stupid, cowardly, unhelpful, childish, embarrassed.
anonymous thinks: incompetent, embarrassed, needy, hostile, insecure, dull.
anonymous thinks: needy, irrational, impatient, panicky, overdramatic, insecure.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cowardly, needy, panicky, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> incompetent, timid, stupid, insecure, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, irrational, childish, impatient, embarrassed, dull</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> intolerant, inflexible, violent, aloof, glum, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that Thirteenly is insecure 75% of people agree that Thirteenly is needy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (25%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (25%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (0%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (25%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 18.4.2024, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Thirteenly">view Thirteenly's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.