Vick_e's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena impatient insensitive cold	Blind Spot inflexible violent aloof vulgar selfish unhelpful needy irrational childish self-satisfied overdramatic foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure loud	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly glum stupid simple irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical passive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Vick_e is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (33%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

internal_agony thinks: foolish, overdramatic, irrational, violent, impatient, childish.
maisie23 thinks: cold, inflexible, vulgar, unhelpful, insensitive.
Curtis thinks: aloof, needy, selfish, self-satisfied, overdramatic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> impatient, insensitive, cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, violent, aloof, vulgar, selfish, unhelpful, needy, irrational, childish, self-satisfied, overdramatic, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, loud</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that Vick_e is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (33%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Vick_e">view Vick_e's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.