The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to abnegation's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecurecynical impatient rash overdramatic | Blind Spotintolerantviolent aloof stupid vulgar hostile unhappy inane brash ignorant childish boastful chaotic vacuous insensitive foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façadehumourless | Unknownincompetent inflexible timid cowardly glum simple irresponsible lethargic withdrawn selfish unhelpful needy unimaginative cruel irrational distant blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
60% of people think that abnegation is intolerant
60% of people think that abnegation is unhappy
incompetent (0%) intolerant (60%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (20%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (20%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (20%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (20%) selfish (0%) unhappy (60%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (40%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (20%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (20%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (40%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (20%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (20%) humourless (0%)
Maxine thinks: foolish, rash, chaotic, unhappy, intolerant.
Sus thinks: cynical, impatient, unhappy, vulgar, insecure, violent.
zennydoo thinks: intolerant, hostile, overdramatic, boastful, unhappy.
Cheryl Leong thinks: cynical, brash, aloof, intolerant, impatient, insensitive.
you are so fuckin stupid thinks: stupid, insecure, vacuous, childish, ignorant, inane.
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