adesa's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to adesa's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure lethargic unhappy childish	Blind Spot violent needy unimaginative inane blasé impatient weak panicky passive cold
Not Known to Others	Façade irresponsible irrational	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum stupid simple vulgar withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful cynical brash cruel ignorant distant boastful imperceptive chaotic embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people agree that adesa is insecure

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (50%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (25%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Carl Virost thinks: unhappy, childish, inane, insecure, cold, weak.
Alex thinks: unimaginative, passive, violent, insecure, childish, panicky.
Your MOM! thinks: insecure, passive, impatient, blasé, lethargic.
A Nony Mouse thinks: lethargic, insecure, unhappy, needy, violent.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, lethargic, unhappy, childish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, needy, unimaginative, inane, blasé, impatient, weak, panicky, passive, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> irresponsible, irrational</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, boastful, imperceptive, chaotic, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people agree that adesa is insecure <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (50%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (25%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 19.4.2024, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=adesa">view adesa's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.