benetnasch's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to benetnasch's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
unhappy
distant

Blind Spot

aloof
glum
simple
withdrawn
cynical
blasé
embarrassed
vacuous
predictable
unreliable
Not Known to Others

Façade

incompetent
selfish
unhelpful

Unknown

intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient weak loud panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull callous inattentive cold foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that benetnasch is insecure
100% of people think that benetnasch is embarrassed

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (50%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (100%) loud (0%) vacuous (25%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (25%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

shay thinks: insecure, embarrassed, aloof, unhappy, distant.
tsu thinks: withdrawn, simple, insecure, vacuous, glum, embarrassed.
why wasnt gay an option thinks: insecure, aloof, embarrassed, predictable, glum, blasé.
Kaeden thinks: unreliable, withdrawn, cynical, distant, embarrassed.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.