besht's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
selfish
needy
brash
overdramatic

Blind Spot

aloof
irresponsible
unhappy
cynical
cruel
ignorant
irrational
childish
boastful
blasé
chaotic
embarrassed
loud
panicky
unethical
smug
predictable
unreliable
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

callous

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane distant imperceptive impatient weak vacuous insensitive self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate dull inattentive cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

85% of people agree that besht is insecure
57% of people agree that besht is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (14%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (85%) irresponsible (28%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (28%) unhappy (28%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (28%) needy (14%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (14%) cruel (14%) ignorant (14%) irrational (14%) distant (0%) childish (14%) boastful (14%) blasé (14%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (28%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (28%) loud (14%) vacuous (0%) panicky (14%) unethical (14%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (14%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (57%) dull (0%) predictable (14%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (14%) cold (0%) foolish (28%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (7 people)

thebarkingbird thinks: irresponsible, selfish, childish, embarrassed, chaotic, insecure.
metalmama thinks: cynical, aloof, insecure, embarrassed, loud.
anonymouse thinks: overdramatic, selfish, panicky, insecure, brash.
anon thinks: insecure, foolish, unhappy, blasé, cynical.
? thinks: insecure, needy, unreliable, overdramatic, chaotic, boastful.
bkjkbk thinks: insecure, overdramatic, smug, irrational, unhappy, predictable.
anonymous thinks: foolish, unethical, ignorant, overdramatic, cruel, irresponsible.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.