byelka58's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

cowardly
aloof
blasé
passive

Blind Spot

intolerant
inflexible
timid
violent
glum
insecure
withdrawn
hostile
selfish
cynical
cruel
ignorant
impatient
insensitive
smug
dispassionate
predictable
callous
cold
humourless
Not Known to Others

Façade

lethargic
boastful

Unknown

incompetent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash irrational distant childish imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied rash overdramatic dull inattentive unreliable foolish

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

55% of people think that byelka58 is timid
77% of people think that byelka58 is cynical
55% of people agree that byelka58 is passive

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (11%) inflexible (11%) timid (55%) cowardly (11%) violent (11%) aloof (33%) glum (11%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (44%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (44%) hostile (11%) selfish (11%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (77%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (11%) ignorant (11%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (11%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (11%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (22%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (55%) smug (22%) rash (0%) dispassionate (11%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (22%) callous (11%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (11%) foolish (0%) humourless (22%)

Description Breakdown (9 people)

la_zumo thinks: insecure, timid, passive, aloof, cynical.
Svetlana thinks: cynical, withdrawn, dispassionate, blasé, insecure, passive.
lilstrawburry thinks: timid, cynical, passive, predictable, insecure.
gabbiana thinks: inflexible, timid, cowardly, smug, passive, predictable.
Leigh thinks: aloof, cynical, humourless, smug, glum, cold.
stacey thinks: timid, insecure, passive, withdrawn, cynical.
fuckU thinks: violent, hostile, ignorant, insensitive, cruel, humourless.
the Edge thinks: aloof, cynical, withdrawn, timid, callous.
Me thinks: withdrawn, cynical, selfish, insensitive, impatient, intolerant.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.