celestial517's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof cynical	Blind Spot inflexible stupid irresponsible lethargic irrational distant childish boastful blasé impatient loud insensitive dispassionate dull predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade imperceptive inattentive foolish	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent glum simple insecure vulgar withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug rash overdramatic callous unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that celestial517 is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (25%) childish (100%) boastful (25%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (0%) dull (50%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

jiale thinks: aloof, stupid, dull, childish, inflexible, distant.
deborah thinks: childish, predictable, dull, loud, dispassionate.
annnn thinks: irresponsible, childish, lethargic, insensitive, irrational.
:P thinks: cynical, blasé, impatient, childish, boastful.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, cynical</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, stupid, irresponsible, lethargic, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, impatient, loud, insensitive, dispassionate, dull, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> imperceptive, inattentive, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, simple, insecure, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, overdramatic, callous, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that celestial517 is childish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (25%) childish (100%) boastful (25%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (0%) dull (50%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 14.8.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=celestial517">view celestial517's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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