dashka's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

intolerant
insecure
selfish
needy
cruel
cold

Blind Spot

incompetent
timid
cowardly
violent
glum
stupid
vulgar
lethargic
withdrawn
hostile
unhappy
unhelpful
cynical
irrational
distant
childish
imperceptive
chaotic
impatient
weak
loud
panicky
unethical
insensitive
self-satisfied
passive
smug
dispassionate
overdramatic
predictable
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

inflexible aloof simple irresponsible unimaginative inane brash ignorant boastful blasé embarrassed vacuous rash dull callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (5%) intolerant (15%) inflexible (0%) timid (21%) cowardly (5%) violent (42%) aloof (0%) glum (10%) stupid (5%) simple (0%) insecure (36%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (5%) lethargic (5%) withdrawn (31%) hostile (21%) selfish (26%) unhappy (26%) unhelpful (5%) cynical (31%) needy (21%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (10%) ignorant (0%) irrational (15%) distant (36%) childish (10%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (5%) chaotic (10%) impatient (26%) weak (5%) embarrassed (0%) loud (5%) vacuous (0%) panicky (10%) unethical (5%) insensitive (21%) self-satisfied (5%) passive (5%) smug (5%) rash (0%) dispassionate (5%) overdramatic (26%) dull (0%) predictable (10%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (10%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (19 people)

Ryan thinks: , cynical, insecure, glum, glum.
Katy thinks: unhappy, weak, distant, needy, withdrawn, hostile.
Michael thinks: , timid, cowardly, insecure, distant, stupid.
Rose thinks: violent, unethical, unhappy, overdramatic, impatient.
AshleySteve thinks: hostile, loud, violent, selfish, insensitive.
the guy out the window thinks: cynical, violent, incompetent, self-satisfied, distant.
ash thinks: selfish, irrational, distant, chaotic, cold, insecure.
Rodger Aiken thinks: intolerant, cold, dispassionate, imperceptive, distant, unhappy.
The Andrew thinks: violent, withdrawn, selfish, cynical, childish, overdramatic.
shipe thinks: violent, vulgar, irrational, cruel, predictable, unhelpful.
Alex thinks: insecure, selfish, needy, cruel, predictable, overdramatic.
Kait thinks: overdramatic, unhappy, impatient, panicky, withdrawn.
silent thinks: intolerant, insecure, hostile, cynical, insensitive, smug.
blue2 thinks: insecure, timid, withdrawn, panicky, impatient, distant.
Jessica thinks: cynical, distant, timid, withdrawn, violent.
c. thinks: insecure, selfish, needy, childish, insensitive, overdramatic.
blackmagerikku thinks: impatient, chaotic, violent, cynical, intolerant.
i dont have a death wish thinks: needy, impatient, irrational, violent, hostile, insensitive.
Ed thinks: passive, lethargic, unhappy, withdrawn, timid.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.