dayever's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof insecure impatient	Blind Spot violent withdrawn distant chaotic panicky passive inattentive cold
Not Known to Others	Façade intolerant childish overdramatic	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that dayever is aloof
75% of people think that dayever is withdrawn
100% of people think that dayever is cold

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (75%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (75%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (100%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

SakuKaori thinks: passive, insecure, panicky, cold, withdrawn.
anonymous thinks: aloof, withdrawn, chaotic, inattentive, cold.
Don't tell You! :P thinks: violent, aloof, distant, impatient, panicky, cold.
anonymous thinks: aloof, withdrawn, distant, passive, cold.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, insecure, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, withdrawn, distant, chaotic, panicky, passive, inattentive, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> intolerant, childish, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that dayever is aloof 75% of people think that dayever is withdrawn 100% of people think that dayever is cold <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (75%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (75%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (50%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (100%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.2.2010, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=dayever">view dayever's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.