dolp's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to dolp's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena glum insecure impatient panicky overdramatic	Blind Spot inflexible stupid lethargic selfish unhappy distant boastful foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent aloof simple irresponsible vulgar hostile unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that dolp is glum
100% of people agree that dolp is insecure

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (66%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Yuhui thinks: insecure, unhappy, panicky, impatient, overdramatic, glum.
Elise thinks: insecure, selfish, lethargic, foolish, stupid.
heee... thinks: inflexible, glum, insecure, distant, boastful.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> glum, insecure, impatient, panicky, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, stupid, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, distant, boastful, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, hostile, unhelpful, cynical, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people agree that dolp is glum 100% of people agree that dolp is insecure <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (66%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=dolp">view dolp's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.