highlander's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

aloof
selfish
distant
impatient
self-satisfied

Blind Spot

incompetent
intolerant
inflexible
timid
cowardly
violent
glum
stupid
simple
insecure
irresponsible
vulgar
lethargic
withdrawn
unhappy
unhelpful
cynical
needy
unimaginative
brash
cruel
ignorant
irrational
childish
boastful
blasé
imperceptive
chaotic
weak
embarrassed
loud
unethical
insensitive
passive
smug
dispassionate
overdramatic
dull
predictable
callous
inattentive
unreliable
cold
foolish
humourless
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

hostile inane vacuous panicky rash

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (3%) intolerant (3%) inflexible (11%) timid (12%) cowardly (5%) violent (3%) aloof (24%) glum (3%) stupid (9%) simple (9%) insecure (12%) irresponsible (3%) vulgar (3%) lethargic (1%) withdrawn (31%) hostile (0%) selfish (9%) unhappy (12%) unhelpful (11%) cynical (22%) needy (3%) unimaginative (14%) inane (0%) brash (3%) cruel (1%) ignorant (3%) irrational (5%) distant (38%) childish (7%) boastful (5%) blasé (1%) imperceptive (9%) chaotic (9%) impatient (16%) weak (7%) embarrassed (5%) loud (3%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (1%) insensitive (11%) self-satisfied (22%) passive (16%) smug (12%) rash (0%) dispassionate (18%) overdramatic (7%) dull (16%) predictable (25%) callous (3%) inattentive (16%) unreliable (5%) cold (16%) foolish (5%) humourless (14%)

Description Breakdown (54 people)

JocktheMotie thinks: timid, aloof, insecure, embarrassed, distant.
mmhmm thinks: self-satisfied, selfish, brash, impatient, withdrawn.
none thinks: impatient, self-satisfied, inflexible, distant, smug.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, ignorant, predictable, cold, weak.
Nerd Girl thinks: dull, cynical, predictable, simple, humourless, smug.
TG thinks: aloof, unimaginative, callous, withdrawn, brash.
Arclight thinks: inflexible, passive, intolerant, dispassionate, predictable.
Vasilisa thinks: cold, insensitive, imperceptive, aloof, inflexible.
Satine thinks: withdrawn, distant, dispassionate, aloof, passive.
anonymous thinks: impatient, needy, chaotic, selfish, embarrassed.
ywir thinks: inattentive, aloof, distant, withdrawn, cynical.
z buck "I hate noharis" mcfate thinks: dispassionate, predictable, distant, unhappy, inflexible.
thinks: withdrawn, cold, smug, dull, cynical.
Jeepers thinks: timid, embarrassed, glum, withdrawn, aloof.
1 thinks: unhelpful, selfish, boastful, predictable, cold, overdramatic.
free thinks: aloof, insensitive, passive, dull, insecure.
ku thinks: timid, unhappy, irrational, distant, overdramatic, foolish.
your lover thinks: unimaginative, predictable, childish, weak, simple.
ion thinks: distant, ignorant, vulgar, glum, cynical, self-satisfied.
anono mouse thinks: aloof, distant, impatient, self-satisfied, dispassionate.
ann thinks: insensitive, inattentive, selfish, cold, smug.
Ivy thinks: childish, stupid, loud, self-satisfied, incompetent.
Anonymous thinks: dispassionate, distant, smug, cynical, withdrawn, cold.
anonymous thinks: distant, dispassionate, inattentive, predictable, humourless.
Kami thinks: dull, stupid, unhelpful, unimaginative, imperceptive.
Wind-up Rex thinks: blasé, self-satisfied, dull, stupid, predictable, foolish.
GrosCanard thinks: intolerant, cynical, childish, imperceptive, impatient, self-satisfied.
jrych thinks: unhappy, unhelpful, timid, distant, passive.
bnj thinks: aloof, withdrawn, distant, unethical, unreliable, inattentive.
Braderick thinks: irrational, loud, boastful, overdramatic, inattentive, insensitive.
Braderick thinks: self-satisfied, overdramatic, insensitive, inattentive, boastful, chaotic.
anon thinks: dull, dispassionate, unimaginative, distant, humourless.
Anon thinks: dull, humourless, smug, predictable, withdrawn.
yeghor thinks: dispassionate, unimaginative, self-satisfied, dull, predictable, simple.
anon thinks: distant, passive, dispassionate, withdrawn, cold.
Pandemeria thinks: timid, withdrawn, cynical, passive, irrational, insecure.
brandi thinks: impatient, unreliable, predictable, humourless, unhappy.
Joe thinks: cowardly, simple, weak, foolish, stupid.
nanlou thinks: vulgar, unhappy, distant, chaotic, passive, predictable.
anon thinks: unhelpful, imperceptive, inattentive, unreliable, callous.
Frosty6226 thinks: self-satisfied, humourless, distant, withdrawn, unimaginative.
Kas thinks: distant, aloof, inattentive, passive, self-satisfied.
Kuhayla thinks: needy, aloof, lethargic, insecure, passive.
sinning roll thinks: imperceptive, self-satisfied, predictable, humourless, inflexible.
tomanema thinks: violent, selfish, distant, chaotic, cowardly, cruel.
X thinks: cynical, cowardly, humourless, predictable, impatient.
kjjj thinks: unhappy, distant, childish, unhelpful, insecure, smug.
Artyom thinks: aloof, cynical, chaotic, violent, impatient.
Orange thinks: timid, simple, withdrawn, unimaginative, dull.
Holly thinks: inflexible, withdrawn, distant, insensitive, cold.
jj thinks: incompetent, aloof, unimaginative, impatient, weak.
INTJ thinks: irresponsible, inattentive, cynical, insecure, unhelpful.
INTJ thinks: stupid, insecure, withdrawn, cynical, dispassionate, irresponsible.
quedate en silencio thinks: unhappy, distant, cold, timid, withdrawn, cynical.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.