kurikagome's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to kurikagome's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure withdrawn ignorant	Blind Spot aloof needy distant childish chaotic impatient panicky insensitive passive rash dispassionate overdramatic callous inattentive cold
Not Known to Others	Façade weak foolish	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel irrational boastful blasé imperceptive embarrassed loud vacuous unethical self-satisfied smug dull predictable unreliable humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that kurikagome is distant

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (0%) distant (75%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (25%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

vampiressness thinks: aloof, distant, impatient, withdrawn, rash.
superchick thinks: ignorant, dispassionate, insensitive, distant, passive, cold.
Cait thinks: insecure, needy, distant, chaotic, callous, inattentive.
anonymous thinks: childish, chaotic, panicky, overdramatic, needy.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, withdrawn, ignorant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, needy, distant, childish, chaotic, impatient, panicky, insensitive, passive, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, callous, inattentive, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> weak, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, self-satisfied, smug, dull, predictable, unreliable, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that kurikagome is distant <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (0%) distant (75%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (25%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=kurikagome">view kurikagome's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.