The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to ladypoetess's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenatimidinsecure lethargic withdrawn predictable | Blind Spotcowardlyaloof selfish unhappy needy irrational distant impatient weak panicky insensitive passive overdramatic |
| Not Known to Others | Façadehumourless | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed loud vacuous unethical self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
71% of people agree that ladypoetess is insecure
85% of people think that ladypoetess is needy
57% of people think that ladypoetess is overdramatic
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (42%) cowardly (14%) violent (0%) aloof (14%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (71%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (14%) withdrawn (14%) hostile (0%) selfish (14%) unhappy (14%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (85%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (28%) distant (14%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (14%) weak (28%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (28%) unethical (0%) insensitive (28%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (14%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (57%) dull (0%) predictable (14%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Amber thinks: selfish, weak, insensitive, overdramatic, needy.
Boundfate thinks: predictable, irrational, needy, insecure, panicky, overdramatic.
_ thinks: insecure, needy, aloof, timid, unhappy.
shiroi_neko thinks: overdramatic, needy, insecure, irrational, panicky.
* thinks: insecure, overdramatic, needy, cowardly, insensitive.
Jaxraven thinks: timid, insecure, distant, lethargic, impatient.
Knight thinks: timid, passive, weak, withdrawn, needy.
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