luvlymish's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

selfish
distant
childish
imperceptive
predictable

Blind Spot

stupid
insecure
irresponsible
vulgar
lethargic
withdrawn
unhappy
cynical
needy
brash
irrational
boastful
blasé
chaotic
impatient
weak
loud
panicky
insensitive
self-satisfied
smug
rash
overdramatic
callous
inattentive
unreliable
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

incompetent

Unknown

intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum simple hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant embarrassed vacuous unethical passive dispassionate dull cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (5%) simple (0%) insecure (47%) irresponsible (15%) vulgar (15%) lethargic (5%) withdrawn (5%) hostile (0%) selfish (21%) unhappy (10%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (26%) needy (21%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (21%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (26%) distant (5%) childish (21%) boastful (10%) blasé (15%) imperceptive (10%) chaotic (36%) impatient (10%) weak (5%) embarrassed (0%) loud (21%) vacuous (0%) panicky (21%) unethical (0%) insensitive (26%) self-satisfied (15%) passive (0%) smug (10%) rash (10%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (42%) dull (0%) predictable (26%) callous (5%) inattentive (5%) unreliable (10%) cold (0%) foolish (5%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (19 people)

foo (see I did it!) thinks: chaotic, insecure, unhappy, panicky, irrational.
BB thinks: childish, irrational, self-satisfied, overdramatic, selfish, irresponsible.
Harry Potter (don't hate me!) thinks: cynical, needy, insecure, overdramatic, distant, panicky.
Ell thinks: insecure, irresponsible, chaotic, withdrawn, unreliable.
with love! thinks: vulgar, self-satisfied, irrational, insecure, smug, blasé.
Fletch thinks: needy, brash, boastful, loud, overdramatic.
JFox (also sorry!) thinks: insensitive, overdramatic, boastful, rash, chaotic.
YA YA YA thinks: stupid, lethargic, weak, smug, predictable.
DariusLancaster (sorry) thinks: predictable, insecure, blasé, cynical, chaotic.
Archangel thinks: insecure, selfish, insensitive, callous, self-satisfied.
anon thinks: chaotic, needy, cynical, unreliable, unhappy.
Phantom thinks: vulgar, irresponsible, cynical, brash, irrational.
Shell thinks: insecure, insensitive, selfish, overdramatic, childish.
Monica thinks: imperceptive, chaotic, inattentive, insecure, rash, predictable.
anonymous thinks: panicky, imperceptive, overdramatic, brash, insensitive, predictable.
erfalaswen thinks: insecure, selfish, brash, loud, insensitive, overdramatic.
Doctor Palpatine thinks: needy, impatient, childish, loud, blasé, panicky.
nordiclady thinks: overdramatic, predictable, impatient, irrational, cynical.
Anon thinks: vulgar, chaotic, loud, foolish, childish.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.