The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to mistress_tawny's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecurelethargic impatient passive overdramatic | Blind Spotinflexibletimid glum simple withdrawn unhappy cynical embarrassed panicky dispassionate predictable |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeunimaginative | Unknownincompetent intolerant cowardly violent aloof stupid irresponsible vulgar hostile selfish unhelpful needy inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
87% of people agree that mistress_tawny is insecure
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (12%) timid (37%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (37%) stupid (0%) simple (12%) insecure (87%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (12%) withdrawn (12%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (12%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (37%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (37%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (12%) overdramatic (37%) dull (0%) predictable (12%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Lisa thinks: panicky, insecure, unhappy, predictable, impatient.
May thinks: timid, embarrassed, passive, insecure, dispassionate.
Red thinks: timid, unhappy, withdrawn, insecure, glum.
sweetmadamblue thinks: insecure, unhappy, embarrassed, panicky, overdramatic.
Severine thinks: insecure, impatient, overdramatic, embarrassed, simple, passive.
Bobbi thinks: insecure, unhappy, passive, impatient, inflexible.
becky thinks: insecure, overdramatic, passive, glum, panicky.
erin thinks: lethargic, cynical, glum, timid, impatient.
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