The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to seltsam's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainsecurechaotic panicky | Blind Spotinflexibletimid aloof withdrawn brash distant impatient embarrassed passive overdramatic |
Not Known to Others | Façadeselfishneedy unreliable | Unknownincompetent intolerant cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
66% of people think that seltsam is withdrawn
66% of people think that seltsam is distant
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (66%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (33%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (66%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (33%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
sorchasilver thinks: embarrassed, withdrawn, distant, passive, aloof.
moonix thinks: chaotic, panicky, brash, impatient, overdramatic.
tine thinks: timid, insecure, distant, inflexible, withdrawn.
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