steve_way's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cynical rash inattentive	Blind Spot intolerant timid aloof glum insecure withdrawn unhappy distant blasé embarrassed passive overdramatic predictable cold
Not Known to Others	Façade irresponsible boastful weak	Unknown incompetent inflexible cowardly violent stupid simple vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish imperceptive chaotic impatient loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug dispassionate dull callous unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

80% of people agree that steve_way is cynical

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (40%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (40%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (80%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (40%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (20%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (20%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (20%) callous (0%) inattentive (20%) unreliable (0%) cold (20%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

Rein thinks: timid, glum, overdramatic, embarrassed, unhappy, cynical.
mivox thinks: glum, unhappy, insecure, cynical, passive, withdrawn.
sarathemenace thinks: insecure, timid, passive, aloof, embarrassed.
Mrs_Woman thinks: cynical, predictable, blasé, rash, distant.
miss kalypso thinks: distant, inattentive, cold, intolerant, cynical.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cynical, rash, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, timid, aloof, glum, insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, distant, blasé, embarrassed, passive, overdramatic, predictable, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> irresponsible, boastful, weak</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, cowardly, violent, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, dispassionate, dull, callous, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>80% of people agree that steve_way is cynical <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (40%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (40%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (80%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (40%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (20%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (20%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (20%) callous (0%) inattentive (20%) unreliable (0%) cold (20%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 19.5.2024, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=steve_way">view steve_way's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.