temptressdrea's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena needy impatient	Blind Spot timid cowardly insecure withdrawn unhappy brash irrational imperceptive chaotic embarrassed panicky passive overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade inflexible lethargic selfish cold	Unknown incompetent intolerant violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane cruel ignorant distant childish boastful blasé weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that temptressdrea is insecure
75% of people agree that temptressdrea is needy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (25%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (25%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (25%) chaotic (50%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Niki thinks: insecure, unhappy, impatient, panicky, needy, embarrassed.
nathan thinks: insecure, needy, chaotic, overdramatic, brash.
Taiko thinks: insecure, needy, overdramatic, passive, timid, cowardly.
Caenum thinks: irrational, imperceptive, chaotic, insecure, withdrawn.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> needy, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, cowardly, insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, brash, irrational, imperceptive, chaotic, embarrassed, panicky, passive, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> inflexible, lethargic, selfish, cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, hostile, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, cruel, ignorant, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, weak, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that temptressdrea is insecure 75% of people agree that temptressdrea is needy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (25%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (25%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (25%) chaotic (50%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 20.11.2009, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=temptressdrea">view temptressdrea's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.