calvaire's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You're reading this page because calvaire wants to know how you'd describe them - pick the five or six words from the list below that you think represent calvaire's most significant weaknesses, however slight.

Warning: If you're hacking URLs, this might not be the calvaire you know, it could just be someone else who's used the name. Ask your calvaire if this is really their Nohari Window.

incompetentintolerantinflexibletimidcowardly
violentaloofglumstupidsimple
insecureirresponsiblevulgarlethargicwithdrawn
hostileselfishunhappyunhelpfulcynical
needyunimaginativeinanebrashcruel
ignorantirrationaldistantchildishboastful
blaséimperceptivechaoticimpatientweak
embarrassedloudvacuouspanickyunethical
insensitiveself-satisfiedpassivesmugrash
dispassionateoverdramaticdullpredictablecallous
inattentiveunreliablecoldfoolishhumourless

Enter a name so that calvaire and other readers will know what you thought (or just use "anonymous" if you'd rather). Note that your words and name will be visible to other people who reply to calvaire's window.

Name:

(Or you can just view their Window if you've done this before.)

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.