AeonIan's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Not
Known
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Known to Others

Arena

glum
withdrawn
unhappy
distant
passive
overdramatic

Blind Spot

timid
aloof
insecure
irresponsible
lethargic
selfish
unhelpful
cynical
needy
unimaginative
childish
blasé
unethical
insensitive
self-satisfied
smug
dispassionate
dull
predictable
inattentive
cold
humourless
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent stupid simple vulgar hostile inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky rash callous unreliable foolish

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

52% of people think that AeonIan is aloof
88% of people agree that AeonIan is withdrawn
56% of people agree that AeonIan is distant
52% of people agree that AeonIan is passive
80% of people agree that AeonIan is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (4%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (52%) glum (36%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (4%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (4%) withdrawn (88%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (4%) cynical (12%) needy (16%) unimaginative (4%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (56%) childish (8%) boastful (0%) blasé (4%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (4%) insensitive (4%) self-satisfied (28%) passive (52%) smug (32%) rash (0%) dispassionate (8%) overdramatic (80%) dull (4%) predictable (4%) callous (0%) inattentive (4%) unreliable (0%) cold (4%) foolish (0%) humourless (8%)

Description Breakdown (25 people)

anonymous thinks: insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, needy, irresponsible, smug.
anonymous thinks: unhappy, glum, withdrawn, overdramatic, needy, unethical.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, distant, blasé, dispassionate, cold.
anonymous thinks: needy, overdramatic, distant, self-satisfied, smug.
Minax thinks: aloof, overdramatic, glum, smug, withdrawn, selfish.
natsumi thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, selfish, insensitive, passive, humourless.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, insecure, passive, overdramatic, distant, selfish.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, passive, glum, overdramatic, insecure, selfish.
Anon Coward thinks: passive, unhelpful, withdrawn, overdramatic, aloof, lethargic.
Raf thinks: glum, distant, passive, unhappy, withdrawn, overdramatic.
Marianne thinks: withdrawn, passive, overdramatic, self-satisfied, smug, aloof.
INFJ Feedback thinks: withdrawn, passive, distant, overdramatic, aloof, self-satisfied.
INFJ Feedback thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, distant, childish, cynical, aloof.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, passive, overdramatic, aloof, distant.
Anonny thinks: aloof, glum, unhappy, distant, passive.
INFJ Anon Coward thinks: overdramatic, distant, smug, childish, withdrawn, aloof.
... thinks: glum, withdrawn, aloof, overdramatic, distant, passive.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, aloof, distant, self-satisfied, passive.
birdy peep peep thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, distant, aloof, glum, passive.
salty slug thinks: withdrawn, distant, aloof, passive, self-satisfied, overdramatic.
anonymous thinks: unimaginative, predictable, self-satisfied, smug, humourless.
Majestic thinks: overdramatic, smug, withdrawn, cynical, selfish, insecure.
Formless thinks: overdramatic, aloof, glum, distant, withdrawn, dispassionate.
gangster1 thinks: needy, self-satisfied, dull, timid, withdrawn.
Jane thinks: inattentive, overdramatic, cynical, withdrawn, glum, smug.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.