The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to AeonIan's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaglumwithdrawn unhappy distant passive overdramatic | Blind Spottimidaloof insecure irresponsible lethargic selfish unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative childish blasé unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug dispassionate dull predictable inattentive cold humourless |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent stupid simple vulgar hostile inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky rash callous unreliable foolish |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
52% of people think that AeonIan is aloof
88% of people agree that AeonIan is withdrawn
56% of people agree that AeonIan is distant
52% of people agree that AeonIan is passive
80% of people agree that AeonIan is overdramatic
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (4%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (52%) glum (36%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (4%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (4%) withdrawn (88%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (4%) cynical (12%) needy (16%) unimaginative (4%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (56%) childish (8%) boastful (0%) blasé (4%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (4%) insensitive (4%) self-satisfied (28%) passive (52%) smug (32%) rash (0%) dispassionate (8%) overdramatic (80%) dull (4%) predictable (4%) callous (0%) inattentive (4%) unreliable (0%) cold (4%) foolish (0%) humourless (8%)
anonymous thinks: insecure, withdrawn, unhappy, needy, irresponsible, smug.
anonymous thinks: unhappy, glum, withdrawn, overdramatic, needy, unethical.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, distant, blasé, dispassionate, cold.
anonymous thinks: needy, overdramatic, distant, self-satisfied, smug.
Minax thinks: aloof, overdramatic, glum, smug, withdrawn, selfish.
natsumi thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, selfish, insensitive, passive, humourless.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, insecure, passive, overdramatic, distant, selfish.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, passive, glum, overdramatic, insecure, selfish.
Anon Coward thinks: passive, unhelpful, withdrawn, overdramatic, aloof, lethargic.
Raf thinks: glum, distant, passive, unhappy, withdrawn, overdramatic.
Marianne thinks: withdrawn, passive, overdramatic, self-satisfied, smug, aloof.
INFJ Feedback thinks: withdrawn, passive, distant, overdramatic, aloof, self-satisfied.
INFJ Feedback thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, distant, childish, cynical, aloof.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, passive, overdramatic, aloof, distant.
Anonny thinks: aloof, glum, unhappy, distant, passive.
INFJ Anon Coward thinks: overdramatic, distant, smug, childish, withdrawn, aloof.
... thinks: glum, withdrawn, aloof, overdramatic, distant, passive.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, aloof, distant, self-satisfied, passive.
birdy peep peep thinks: withdrawn, overdramatic, distant, aloof, glum, passive.
salty slug thinks: withdrawn, distant, aloof, passive, self-satisfied, overdramatic.
anonymous thinks: unimaginative, predictable, self-satisfied, smug, humourless.
Majestic thinks: overdramatic, smug, withdrawn, cynical, selfish, insecure.
Formless thinks: overdramatic, aloof, glum, distant, withdrawn, dispassionate.
gangster1 thinks: needy, self-satisfied, dull, timid, withdrawn.
Jane thinks: inattentive, overdramatic, cynical, withdrawn, glum, smug.
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