The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Ahavah's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenavulgarneedy impatient passive | Blind Spotdistant |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeirresponsible | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple insecure lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
100% of people agree that Ahavah is vulgar
100% of people agree that Ahavah is needy
100% of people think that Ahavah is distant
100% of people agree that Ahavah is impatient
100% of people agree that Ahavah is passive
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (100%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (100%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (100%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (100%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (100%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
lily thinks: vulgar, passive, impatient, distant, needy.
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