The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Ansley's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenacynical | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant violent aloof simple insecure vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy distant childish blasé impatient embarrassed loud unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug overdramatic inattentive |
Not Known to Others | Façadeselfishunimaginative ignorant rash predictable | Unknowninflexible timid cowardly glum stupid irresponsible hostile unhelpful needy inane brash cruel irrational boastful imperceptive chaotic weak vacuous panicky dispassionate dull callous unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (14%) intolerant (14%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (42%) aloof (14%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (14%) insecure (14%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (42%) lethargic (14%) withdrawn (28%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (14%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (42%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (14%) childish (28%) boastful (0%) blasé (14%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (28%) weak (0%) embarrassed (14%) loud (42%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (28%) insensitive (14%) self-satisfied (14%) passive (28%) smug (28%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (28%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (14%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Pam thinks: smug, intolerant, violent, blasé, cynical.
Ernest thinks: vulgar, smug, cynical, violent, unethical, impatient.
Ansley, cos I suck thinks: vulgar, withdrawn, distant, embarrassed, self-satisfied, inattentive.
marilyn thinks: aloof, insecure, lethargic, loud, impatient, overdramatic.
pinp0ng thinks: unhappy, childish, loud, passive, overdramatic.
Ash thinks: loud, withdrawn, simple, cynical, passive.
can (bwhahahaha!) thinks: violent, unethical, insensitive, childish, incompetent, vulgar.
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