Bienvenido II's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena impatient passive	Blind Spot aloof simple vulgar withdrawn unhappy needy distant chaotic overdramatic cold
Not Known to Others	Façade selfish dispassionate foolish	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid insecure irresponsible lethargic hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Bienvenido II is simple
66% of people think that Bienvenido II is distant
66% of people agree that Bienvenido II is impatient

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (66%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (66%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

KTKTKT thinks: aloof, vulgar, simple, impatient, distant.
mela thinks: impatient, distant, overdramatic, withdrawn, passive.
scrappyCOCO thinks: unhappy, cold, chaotic, needy, simple.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> impatient, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, simple, vulgar, withdrawn, unhappy, needy, distant, chaotic, overdramatic, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> selfish, dispassionate, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, lethargic, hostile, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that Bienvenido II is simple 66% of people think that Bienvenido II is distant 66% of people agree that Bienvenido II is impatient <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (66%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (66%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Bienvenido II">view Bienvenido II's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.