Dekabrinka's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena inflexible selfish distant impatient	Blind Spot intolerant unimaginative childish embarrassed panicky self-satisfied smug overdramatic predictable cold foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade timid inattentive	Unknown incompetent cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical needy inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak loud vacuous unethical insensitive passive rash dispassionate dull callous unreliable humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that Dekabrinka is distant

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (25%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (75%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (0%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (50%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Yulia thinks: impatient, panicky, overdramatic, selfish, embarrassed.
Nadya thinks: distant, childish, overdramatic, cold, foolish.
me thinks: self-satisfied, intolerant, childish, distant, cold.
IraV thinks: inflexible, unimaginative, predictable, smug, distant.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> inflexible, selfish, distant, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, unimaginative, childish, embarrassed, panicky, self-satisfied, smug, overdramatic, predictable, cold, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> timid, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, needy, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, passive, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, unreliable, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that Dekabrinka is distant <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (25%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (75%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (0%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (50%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 16.10.2024, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Dekabrinka">view Dekabrinka's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.