The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Deloria's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenagluminsecure withdrawn unhappy impatient | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible aloof hostile selfish cynical needy inane brash irrational imperceptive chaotic embarrassed passive dull foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent timid cowardly violent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic unhelpful unimaginative cruel ignorant distant childish boastful blasé weak loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
57% of people agree that Deloria is glum
57% of people agree that Deloria is withdrawn
71% of people agree that Deloria is unhappy
incompetent (0%) intolerant (14%) inflexible (14%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (14%) glum (57%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (42%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (57%) hostile (14%) selfish (14%) unhappy (71%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (42%) needy (14%) unimaginative (0%) inane (14%) brash (14%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (28%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (14%) chaotic (14%) impatient (42%) weak (0%) embarrassed (14%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (14%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (14%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (14%) humourless (0%)
Jason thinks: glum, unhappy, impatient, intolerant, withdrawn, cynical.
LA_N thinks: irrational, glum, cynical, inflexible, brash, insecure.
Jaf thinks: glum, unhappy, cynical, impatient, dull.
Oldbushie thinks: , selfish, aloof, needy, inane, impatient.
David Walker thinks: insecure, embarrassed, imperceptive, unhappy, withdrawn.
Zelly thinks: chaotic, passive, withdrawn, insecure, glum, unhappy.
David (under protest) XD thinks: unhappy, foolish, hostile, withdrawn, irrational.
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