Dottie_Dear's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena intolerant withdrawn selfish impatient	Blind Spot aloof insecure irresponsible needy inane brash distant boastful chaotic loud self-satisfied passive smug overdramatic dull predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade insensitive inattentive	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative cruel ignorant irrational childish blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical rash dispassionate callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that Dottie_Dear is insecure

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (40%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (60%) irresponsible (20%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (40%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (20%) smug (20%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (40%) dull (40%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

beeg thinks: withdrawn, insecure, , aloof, intolerant.
awg thinks: passive, insecure, chaotic, impatient, distant, brash.
P.N thinks: needy, selfish, inane, overdramatic, dull, predictable.
c thinks: loud, brash, predictable, boastful, overdramatic, irresponsible.
st thinks: aloof, insecure, self-satisfied, smug, dull.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> intolerant, withdrawn, selfish, impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, insecure, irresponsible, needy, inane, brash, distant, boastful, chaotic, loud, self-satisfied, passive, smug, overdramatic, dull, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insensitive, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, rash, dispassionate, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people think that Dottie_Dear is insecure <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (40%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (60%) irresponsible (20%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (40%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (20%) smug (20%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (40%) dull (40%) predictable (40%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 29.9.2024, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Dottie_Dear">view Dottie_Dear's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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