Eileen Xiao jing's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

glum
insecure
cynical
passive

Blind Spot

intolerant
inflexible
timid
simple
irresponsible
lethargic
withdrawn
unhappy
needy
cruel
childish
chaotic
impatient
loud
overdramatic
predictable
unreliable
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

vulgar
smug

Unknown

incompetent cowardly violent aloof stupid hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (16%) timid (16%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (16%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (16%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (16%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (16%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (16%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (16%) cold (0%) foolish (16%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

chrissy thinks: impatient, intolerant, cynical, loud, overdramatic, passive.
eve thinks: predictable, inflexible, loud, insecure, simple.
honest eddie thinks: irresponsible, unreliable, childish, intolerant, needy, chaotic.
Alicia thinks: insecure, timid, passive, glum, impatient.
chong wee thinks: predictable, cruel, , intolerant, foolish.
roy thinks: glum, unhappy, lethargic, withdrawn, insecure, needy.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.