The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to FireflyatKFF's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenatimidirresponsible unhappy needy chaotic | Blind Spotintolerantinsecure lethargic withdrawn selfish unhelpful cynical distant blasé imperceptive impatient smug rash overdramatic predictable |
Not Known to Others | Façadeirrational | Unknownincompetent inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple vulgar hostile unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant childish boastful weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
83% of people think that FireflyatKFF is insecure
incompetent (0%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (0%) timid (16%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (83%) irresponsible (16%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (16%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (16%) cynical (33%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (16%) imperceptive (16%) chaotic (16%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (16%) rash (16%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (16%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
JP thinks: insecure, lethargic, withdrawn, cynical, overdramatic, selfish.
Everyone thinks: insecure, unhelpful, smug, needy, selfish, blasé.
meowmeow G. thinks: intolerant, irresponsible, unhappy, needy, impatient.
Catherine thinks: insecure, needy, predictable, withdrawn, timid, distant.
elise thinks: chaotic, rash, imperceptive, insecure, cynical.
Benno thinks: impatient, distant, insecure, unhappy, withdrawn.
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