The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Gilly!'s.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecureirrational boastful chaotic insensitive rash | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish cynical needy brash distant childish impatient embarrassed loud self-satisfied smug overdramatic callous unreliable |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknowninflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple withdrawn unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant blasé imperceptive weak vacuous panicky unethical passive dispassionate dull predictable inattentive cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
54% of people think that Gilly! is overdramatic
incompetent (9%) intolerant (9%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (18%) irresponsible (9%) vulgar (18%) lethargic (9%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (27%) selfish (18%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (18%) needy (9%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (45%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (27%) distant (9%) childish (18%) boastful (36%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (36%) impatient (18%) weak (0%) embarrassed (9%) loud (27%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (18%) self-satisfied (18%) passive (0%) smug (9%) rash (36%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (54%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (9%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (9%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
niffweed17 thinks: selfish, overdramatic, rash, childish, chaotic.
Diana thinks: insecure, irrational, smug, overdramatic, childish, irresponsible.
You Will Work thinks: vulgar, cynical, brash, loud, overdramatic, chaotic.
ScarlettLux thinks: needy, selfish, chaotic, boastful, overdramatic.
Ishy thinks: insensitive, loud, self-satisfied, impatient, boastful.
Expat thinks: boastful, chaotic, self-satisfied, rash, irrational.
Joy thinks: hostile, brash, loud, vulgar, boastful.
ckj thinks: insecure, lethargic, overdramatic, unreliable, incompetent, callous.
Ez thinks: irrational, brash, rash, impatient, hostile.
Eponymous thinks: insensitive, cynical, intolerant, hostile, brash.
Gilly thinks: embarrassed, overdramatic, rash, brash, distant.
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