The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to ItsWalky's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaincompetenttimid needy childish overdramatic inattentive | Blind Spotinflexiblealoof simple insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy cynical brash cruel distant boastful chaotic impatient embarrassed loud unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug predictable humourless |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownintolerant cowardly violent glum stupid hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane ignorant irrational blasé imperceptive weak vacuous panicky rash dispassionate dull callous unreliable cold foolish |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
53% of people agree that ItsWalky is childish
incompetent (7%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (15%) timid (38%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (23%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (7%) insecure (23%) irresponsible (7%) vulgar (15%) lethargic (15%) withdrawn (38%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (7%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (23%) needy (7%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (7%) cruel (7%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (15%) childish (53%) boastful (15%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (7%) impatient (7%) weak (0%) embarrassed (15%) loud (7%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (7%) insensitive (7%) self-satisfied (30%) passive (38%) smug (23%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (23%) dull (0%) predictable (7%) callous (0%) inattentive (15%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (7%)
-hx thinks: irresponsible, childish, self-satisfied, embarrassed, incompetent.
Suki Brits thinks: overdramatic, loud, passive, humourless, withdrawn, boastful.
Brassy thinks: distant, insensitive, withdrawn, passive, inattentive.
Guy Goddamn Gardner thinks: self-satisfied, aloof, vulgar, passive, childish, cynical.
Cholma thinks: self-satisfied, withdrawn, timid, distant, insecure.
Ninja Nick thinks: inflexible, cruel, boastful, needy, childish.
DaveL thinks: overdramatic, childish, self-satisfied, passive, timid.
Starline thinks: childish, smug, simple, passive, timid.
steve-o thinks: timid, insecure, impatient, smug, predictable.
recharge thinks: aloof, childish, withdrawn, timid, insecure.
Gojira thinks: cynical, childish, embarrassed, lethargic, withdrawn, aloof.
Randall thinks: chaotic, inattentive, unhappy, inflexible, lethargic.
anonymous thinks: cynical, smug, overdramatic, unethical, vulgar, brash.
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