The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Jeff sucks because's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenavulgarselfish impatient insensitive | Blind Spotinflexibleglum insecure irresponsible withdrawn hostile cynical inane brash irrational childish blasé chaotic loud vacuous smug inattentive cold |
Not Known to Others | Façadeintolerantcruel | Unknownincompetent timid cowardly violent aloof stupid simple lethargic unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative ignorant distant boastful imperceptive weak embarrassed panicky unethical self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
60% of people agree that Jeff sucks because is vulgar
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (20%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (20%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (20%) vulgar (60%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (20%) selfish (40%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (40%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (20%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (20%) distant (0%) childish (20%) boastful (0%) blasé (20%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (40%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (20%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (20%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (20%) unreliable (0%) cold (20%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
iloveyou thinks: impatient, vulgar, brash, selfish, irrational, insecure.
the better gallagher thinks: vulgar, childish, withdrawn, hostile, chaotic.
words i dont know thinks: glum, inane, blasé, vacuous, cold.
someone thinks: impatient, loud, inattentive, inflexible, cynical.
dunno well enough to say.. thinks: irresponsible, vulgar, selfish, insensitive, smug, cynical.
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