LOVE, vicky's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena hostile selfish	Blind Spot violent aloof insecure lethargic withdrawn cynical irrational distant boastful weak smug
Not Known to Others	Façade stupid impatient overdramatic	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly glum simple irresponsible vulgar unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant childish blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is insecure
66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is cynical
66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is irrational

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (33%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (66%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (66%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

JoshNg thinks: violent, insecure, hostile, cynical, boastful.
anonymous thinks: selfish, smug, weak, lethargic, insecure, irrational.
V thinks: distant, irrational, cynical, aloof, withdrawn.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> hostile, selfish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, aloof, insecure, lethargic, withdrawn, cynical, irrational, distant, boastful, weak, smug</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> stupid, impatient, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, glum, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, childish, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is insecure 66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is cynical 66% of people think that LOVE, vicky is irrational <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (33%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (66%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (66%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (33%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 30.7.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=LOVE, vicky">view LOVE, vicky's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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