Lady Hakeber's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Lady Hakeber's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure

Blind Spot

timid
withdrawn
distant
embarrassed
Not Known to Others

Façade

irresponsible
selfish
weak
panicky
inattentive

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable cold foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that Lady Hakeber is timid
100% of people agree that Lady Hakeber is insecure
100% of people think that Lady Hakeber is withdrawn
100% of people think that Lady Hakeber is distant
100% of people think that Lady Hakeber is embarrassed

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (100%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (100%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (100%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (100%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (1 people)

who, me? thinks: timid, distant, withdrawn, insecure, embarrassed.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.